Are you afraid of being single? Is it a big deal? What does it mean by being single?
It seems that a person is running out of time if he haven't had any experience of entering a relationship with opposite sex, especially when they reached the age of 25. People seem to force you of getting married or having a boyfriend when you reach that age, when you yourself don't care about it. Your friends even look someone best for you. People even suggests aggressive things to do especially for girls just to have a boyfriend/ girlfriend. Sometimes, everything around you drives your emotion, and requires you to be part of this world. They also feel that they are out of this world if they don't have a partner. You even ask yourself why. If people are losing their time, they'll just marry someone immediately and sometimes, results into chaos.
Some of my friends ask me, “ARE YOU SATISFIED OF BEING ALONE?” They don't believe when i say YES. Because for them, having no boyfriend or partner, makes them incomplete. But for me, i don't feel that way....I'm honest...For me, having a relationship with opposite sex doesn't satisfy your happiness, or even makes me complete. Yeah, maybe, you feel insecure or envy when you see couples, but that's what your mind is thinking of...right?Those are norms of society.
Have you ever tried to look back and check yourself, why you don't have any relationship with opposite sex at all? Try to do it....you will understand. I have many single friends, they even say, “WHEN SHALL I MEET MY PRINCE?” But looking back to who they are and what they have, you can see the reason of their singleness. Some of them has to support their family. Or some are still immature to have their own family, or not ready yet and some are still childish. Some are really too choosy when looking for somebody (am i right?).
Why many people gets married at young age? Well, it's their choice, can you see the consequence? Most of them doesn't have a good life, they just looked for happiness, they never tried to be optimistic and see the possibilities in the future.
If you already have a boyfriend/girlfriend, do you think its just for satisfying one's need? Same with getting married? Well, entering a relationship is not just for happiness, it's a preparation to a life after the relationship. And getting married is not just about being happy with your desires, it's after the partnership, it's about responsibility that you have when you already have your own family.
Do you see yourself ready for it?And do you think your family is ready to let you go and build your own family? Think behind happiness and having a relationship.
Joshua Harris said “BLESSED SINGLENESS” Why singleness become a blessing? Think again.....
For me, I'm happy with my single life. Its because I'm satisfied with my life, having my family and friends. With my family, i don't feel bored because we always have bonding and I'm so happy with it. With my friends, we usually have activities and gimmicks. And of course, I have my only GOD, who satisfies my every needs. If I have a boyfriend now, i'll lost time with my family and friends especially with God. He wants me to devote more of my time with Him. He wants me to be closer with Him first. Having someone special will be a bonus...
This write up doesn't mean that I don't want to have a relationship with opposite sex, it's just that I'm happy with my single life and I hope others will understand the reason why they are still single and don't force themselves to have one....God is just preparing you....
It seems that a person is running out of time if he haven't had any experience of entering a relationship with opposite sex, especially when they reached the age of 25. People seem to force you of getting married or having a boyfriend when you reach that age, when you yourself don't care about it. Your friends even look someone best for you. People even suggests aggressive things to do especially for girls just to have a boyfriend/ girlfriend. Sometimes, everything around you drives your emotion, and requires you to be part of this world. They also feel that they are out of this world if they don't have a partner. You even ask yourself why. If people are losing their time, they'll just marry someone immediately and sometimes, results into chaos.
Some of my friends ask me, “ARE YOU SATISFIED OF BEING ALONE?” They don't believe when i say YES. Because for them, having no boyfriend or partner, makes them incomplete. But for me, i don't feel that way....I'm honest...For me, having a relationship with opposite sex doesn't satisfy your happiness, or even makes me complete. Yeah, maybe, you feel insecure or envy when you see couples, but that's what your mind is thinking of...right?Those are norms of society.
Have you ever tried to look back and check yourself, why you don't have any relationship with opposite sex at all? Try to do it....you will understand. I have many single friends, they even say, “WHEN SHALL I MEET MY PRINCE?” But looking back to who they are and what they have, you can see the reason of their singleness. Some of them has to support their family. Or some are still immature to have their own family, or not ready yet and some are still childish. Some are really too choosy when looking for somebody (am i right?).
Why many people gets married at young age? Well, it's their choice, can you see the consequence? Most of them doesn't have a good life, they just looked for happiness, they never tried to be optimistic and see the possibilities in the future.
If you already have a boyfriend/girlfriend, do you think its just for satisfying one's need? Same with getting married? Well, entering a relationship is not just for happiness, it's a preparation to a life after the relationship. And getting married is not just about being happy with your desires, it's after the partnership, it's about responsibility that you have when you already have your own family.
Do you see yourself ready for it?And do you think your family is ready to let you go and build your own family? Think behind happiness and having a relationship.
Joshua Harris said “BLESSED SINGLENESS” Why singleness become a blessing? Think again.....
For me, I'm happy with my single life. Its because I'm satisfied with my life, having my family and friends. With my family, i don't feel bored because we always have bonding and I'm so happy with it. With my friends, we usually have activities and gimmicks. And of course, I have my only GOD, who satisfies my every needs. If I have a boyfriend now, i'll lost time with my family and friends especially with God. He wants me to devote more of my time with Him. He wants me to be closer with Him first. Having someone special will be a bonus...
This write up doesn't mean that I don't want to have a relationship with opposite sex, it's just that I'm happy with my single life and I hope others will understand the reason why they are still single and don't force themselves to have one....God is just preparing you....
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